He who finds a wife finds what is good and receives favor from the LORD.(Proverbs 18:22 NIV)
Have you ever been walking along, minding your own business, and looked down and found a quarter, nickel, dime, or a dollar? Was it your touch that made it whatever it was you found or was it that before you even arrived on the scene? So maybe, just maybe, fellas looking for a good wife should try to find a woman that’s already in a marital relationship. No not polygamy. Try to find a woman that loves God and shows it. She flatters him with praise. She lets her hair down in worship. She’s open and honest with him about her expectations of him. She’s so faithful to Him, that she won’t show even her love for you in a way that would bring him pain, but insists upon you sharing in the love she has for him. She’s not conceited, but she is, “confident of this very thing, that he which hath begun a good work in her will perform it until the day of Jesus Christ: (Philippians 1:6). She is virtuous, which in Hebrew means she has the strength of an army (yet cloaked in femininity).
Lastly, she wants a man that’s not intimidated by all that her first TRUE love (God is Love) has endowed her with, but understands and embraces the package of gifts she is because of Her God.